What would you like written on your tombstone?
I actually plan on being cremated, but my siblings insist that I have a grave marker anyway, so I want something weird written on it. Like, "I like bananas. Bananas are good." or "I am the terror that quacks in the night." I don't want to die and then have everyone trying to remember me as someone that I wasn't. I am a weird, random person, and I always will be. After I die, I don't want people to sit there and try to convince themselves that I was normal. And I know that my family is going to do that. They're going to sit around and try to make it seem like I wasn't the little freaky outcast even among them and so my little grave marker is going to be my last little hurrah to make sure that I am who I am, even after I've moved on to the next time around.
What question do you hate being asked?
1. Are you coming to mom's?
2. Have you decided you're into girls yet?
3. Are you really wearing that?
I haven't been to my mother's house in 5 years. I've been openly into guys since I was 13 years old. I have a weird sense of fashion that is more concerned with being comfortable than being trendy and I don't think I should have to apologize for that; if I want to go outside in a cape with a wand tucked behind my ear, I'm allowed to do that because I am an adult and my painted-on whiskers look wicked.
